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THERAPY BLOG LONDON
Mental health insights
and guidance.
This blog offers expert insights and reflections into mental health challenges like anxiety, trauma, addiction, ADHD, and relationships - with practical guidance for healing, self-awareness and how to choose the right therapist.
Last updated: 17th May 2026

Matthew Frener | UKCP Reg, MBACP (Snr Accred), SNCPS (Accred)
All articles on this blog are written by Matthew Frener, an accredited integrative psychotherapist and DBT practitioner based in Fitzrovia, Central London. Matthew works with adults on trauma, ADHD, attachment, addiction, eating disorders, and LGBTQ+ mental health, drawing on clinical backgrounds in residential treatment, outpatient services, and private practice.
Latest Mental Health Insights


ADHD Therapy in Fitzrovia, From a Therapist Who Has It
Many adults with ADHD arrive in therapy having spent years being told they are lazy, dramatic, impulsive, or too much. They are not. They are running a different operating system in a world designed for another one. I am a neuroaffirming ADHD therapist in Fitzrovia, Central London - and I know this not just clinically, but from the inside. I was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult. Here is what that means when you sit across from me in the therapy room.

Matthew Frener
Apr 237 min read


How Relational Trauma Develops in Childhood and Why It Follows You Into Adult Life
Relational trauma doesn't announce itself with a single dramatic event. It builds slowly, in the texture of everyday interactions that were supposed to feel safe and didn't. This article explores how it forms in childhood, what it does to the developing brain and nervous system, and why those early patterns so often resurface in adult relationships, self-worth, and emotional life.

Matthew Frener
Apr 2011 min read


What Happens in Trauma Therapy, and Will I Have to Talk About Everything Straight Away?
Many people considering trauma therapy share the same quiet fear: that they will have to talk about everything straight away. This guide explains what early trauma therapy actually looks like, why good trauma work is paced carefully, and what the three phases of treatment involve - so you can make an informed decision about starting, without the pressure of having to be ready for everything at once.

Matthew Frener
Apr 1910 min read


How to Choose the Right Private Therapist in London (And Avoid Wasting Time and Money)
Finding the right private therapist in London takes more than a quick directory search. This guide covers what private therapy actually costs in 2026, how to check credentials, what to look for in an introductory call, and the mistakes most people make when choosing - so you can book with confidence.

Matthew Frener
Apr 188 min read


How to Find a Trauma Therapist in London and Choose One Safely
Finding a trauma therapist in London can feel overwhelming. This guide cuts through the noise with a practical decision framework: how to verify credentials, compare in-person and online formats, understand trauma modalities, and know what to ask before booking your first session.

Matthew Frener
Apr 158 min read


Can Attachment Styles Be Changed Through Therapy?
Attachment styles are formed early and feel deeply fixed, but the evidence says otherwise. This guide looks at what research actually shows about changing attachment patterns through therapy, how the therapeutic relationship itself drives that change, and what the process realistically looks like over time.

Matthew Frener
Apr 1110 min read


DBT Therapy for Trauma and Anxiety in London: What to Expect and How It Helps
DBT therapy in London offers practical, evidence-based skills to help you manage trauma, anxiety, and overwhelming emotions. Learn how DBT works, who it's suitable for, and how to get started with DBT-informed therapy in Fitzrovia or online.

Matthew Frener
Apr 116 min read


Addiction Therapy in London: How to Find the Right Private Therapist (And What to Expect)
Private addiction therapy in London can be helpful, but it is not always the right first step. This guide explains what outpatient therapy involves, how to find a therapist with real addiction experience, when medical detox or a higher level of care is needed, and what to expect from the process. Written by an integrative therapist with experience in residential treatment, outpatient services, and private practice.

Matthew Frener
Apr 811 min read


How to Find a Queer-Affirming Therapist in London (And Know You've Found the Right One)
Finding a queer-affirming therapist in London is harder than it looks. "Affirming" appears on hundreds of profiles but has no regulated definition in the UK. This guide covers how to decode therapist profiles, which London directories are actually worth using, five questions to ask on an introductory call, and how to know before you commit whether the fit is genuinely right.

Matthew Frener
Apr 69 min read
Frequently asked questions
This blog covers mental health, therapy, and psychological well-being from a clinical perspective. Articles focus on trauma, ADHD, DBT, attachment styles, addiction, eating disorders, and LGBTQ+ mental health, with practical guidance written for people considering therapy or already in the process of healing.
All articles are written by Matthew Frener, an integrative psychotherapist and DBT practitioner based in Fitzrovia, Central London. Matthew is BACP Accredited and MNCPS Accredited, with clinical backgrounds in residential treatment, NHS-adjacent services, and private practice.
Integrative psychotherapy draws on more than one therapeutic approach rather than following a single fixed model. A therapist may combine psychodynamic understanding, attachment theory, CBT, and DBT depending on what a particular person needs. The aim is to tailor the work to the individual rather than fitting them into a predetermined framework. To read more about my specific approach to integrative psychotherapy, click here.
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) is an evidence-based treatment originally developed for people with intense emotional experiences. It teaches practical skills across four areas: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. It is commonly used for personality disorders (such as BPD and EUPD), trauma, anxiety, eating disorders, and difficulties with emotional regulation.
There is no single threshold for starting therapy. Many people begin when they notice recurring patterns - in relationships, mood, or behaviour, that they have not been able to shift on their own. Others come after a specific event. Therapy can be useful at any point, not only in crisis.
Start by identifying what you are looking for help with, then look for a therapist with specific experience in that area. Check that they are registered with a recognised professional body such as BACP or NCPS. Reading their website carefully and arranging a brief introductory call before committing are both important steps. If you need more in-depth information on finding the right therapist, click here.
Matthew Frener offers individual therapy sessions both in person in Fitzrovia, Central London, and online via Zoom video. Both formats follow the same clinical approach and session structure.
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